Steps to re-ignite the flames of love

1. Be spontaneous with your partner it is a way to help your relationship flourish. Being spontaneous with your partner can enrich and strenghten your intimate moments ...try something that you have been wanting to do..
2. Talk, listen and laugh together become best freinds ..You will soon start creating a bond of intimacy .. Be sincere open and honest ..Communicate about love, sex and the relationship..
3. Send Love Notes , Post them everywhere , tell them how gorgeous, handsome,Beautiful, sexy , how much you love them, be creative be specific...
4. Compliment each other lovingly in public and in privacy, show affection for each other ...
5. Show them how much your really care by being responsive , caring and loving whole heartedly .. Do the little things that say i love you and care for you ..
6. Respect each other whole heartedly, partners who treat each other with kind and respect know thta it is essential for having a deep connections and loving relationship..
7. Be a good partner --regularly get them something you know they will like and enjoy ..
8. Don't let negative or annoying comments bother you , discuss the negativity when you are both calm.
9. Take responsibility for your own growth, appearance and health..
10. Communicating without fear is absoulutely essential to building the deepest kind of freindship and intimate partner..

True Love

Most persons don’t realize this, but the common, or popular, view of “love” involves an element of receiving something. “I love chocolate” really means that “I enjoy getting the experience of the taste of chocolate.” Similarly, “I love you” commonly implies “I enjoy playing with your body,” or “I enjoy believing that you will give me security or protection,” or “I enjoy feeling sexual pleasure with your body” (or “I want to have sexual pleasure with your body.”
Some people skip from one “partner” to another over the surface of existential pain, like a stone skipping over water. As long as they stay above the surface they’re perfectly happy; but when an affair ends, and they come crashing down, they’re desperate for the next leap, sometimes searching for a new partner even at the funeral for the old one. Yet sooner or later the stone loses vitality, and with a final splunk falls into the depths of tribulation.

Dil Ki Baatein

Dil Kii Baaton Ko Hum Keh Nahi Paate,
Unkahi Baaton Ko Wo Samajh Nahi Paate,
Aajao Laut Ke Tum Ab,
Ik Tum Hii Ho Jiske Bina Hum Jii Nahi Paate
Ankhein Rehti Hai Tumhare Intzaar Main,
Or Hum Palkhe Jhapka Bhii Nahi Paate,
Kuy Chale Gaye Door Tum Mujhse Itna,
Ke Ab Maire Khawabo Main Bhii Nahi Aate
Rah Chalte Mil Gaye To Nigahen Pher Lete Ho,
Hum To In Ashkon Ko Behne Se Rok Bhi Nahi Paate,
Tum Chahe Bhula Do Hume Ik Pal Main,
Par Hum Tumko Bhool Nahi Paate
Shayad Maire Pyaar Main Kuch Kami Thii,
Jo Tumhare Kareeb Reh Nahi Paate,
Kyu Hogaye Hum Itne Majboor,
Jo Apni Galtiyon Ko Sudhar Bhii Nahi Paate
Dil Ki Baaton Ko Hum Keh Nahi Paate,
Unkahi Baaton Ko Wo Samajh Nahi Paate,
Aajao Laut Ke Tum Ab,
Ik Tum Hi Ho Jiske Bina Hum Jee Nahi Paate

Love Forever

How is it that you make me so happy,
Even if just one glance of your eye,
One word from your mouth,
One touch of your hand?
You fill me with a joy that only you can give,
A wholeness only you can pour into me,
An excitement only you can arouse.
You fill me to overflowing.
You are the one I wish to hold tight
The one I wish to kiss every night
The one I wish would take my hand
You are the one for me.
I ask you to spend the rest of your life with me,
The rest of your tears with me
The rest of your dreams with me
I ask you to be mine forever

Honesty Is Necessary In Love

I had always thought myself to be a fairly honest person, and by society's standards I was. But what society considers honest and what true honesty really is, are two separate things. We've been systematically taught in our culture to make lying a part of our lives. We do it so often that we don't even notice it anymore.
Honesty is telling "the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth.” Society's definition of the truth telling is to tell the truth ONLY if it doesn't make anyone uncomfortable, doesn't cause a conflict, and it makes you look good.
I'm not talking about the big lies, but more about the consistent, persistent "lies of omission" and "white lies" we tell people almost everyday. For me, I didn't even consider these small untruths to be lies until I experienced the exact opposite. The whole truth.

Is Love Painful ?

Who hasn't experienced the pain of love? Or is it the pain of rejection?
The pain of self doubt?
The pain of fear?
It's important to distinguish between love and totally separate feelings.

Relationship Questions

1) Focus on how you feel when YOU are loving. Does loving someone feel good regardless if it’s returned? Is your loving someone conditional on them loving you back? If so, why?
2) Do you feel loved when your partner isn’t around? If not, why not? Do you accept yourself, appreciate your qualities?
3) Are you doing things for your lover that you really don't want to do, but feel you need to, to keep their love? Are you doing things for them, expecting something in return? What are you expecting? And have you told them what that is?
4) Have you talked to your partner about what things cause you to feel loved? (Don’t get caught up in “if they loved me, they’d know”, cause they don’t.)

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