1) Focus on how you feel when YOU are loving. Does loving someone feel good regardless if it’s returned? Is your loving someone conditional on them loving you back? If so, why?
2) Do you feel loved when your partner isn’t around? If not, why not? Do you accept yourself, appreciate your qualities?
3) Are you doing things for your lover that you really don't want to do, but feel you need to, to keep their love? Are you doing things for them, expecting something in return? What are you expecting? And have you told them what that is?
4) Have you talked to your partner about what things cause you to feel loved? (Don’t get caught up in “if they loved me, they’d know”, cause they don’t.)
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Hey Anuj...Loved ur blog..evrythng is a learning in life whether good or bad...yaa & i completely agree to your defn for TRUTH..now a days v hav defined truth as per our convenience...& all the qns dat u hav askd r 100% right...u need 2 hav answers 2 all this if u want ur relation going smoothly...:)
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